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Canadian Sikh priest fined $415,000 for sexually abusing niece.

News Source: in.news.yahoo.com

VANCOUVER: A court here has ordered a Sikh priest and his wife to pay $415,000 in damages to their niece for sexually abusing her for over a decade.

Karamjeet Kaur, who is 50 now and known as Vicky Waters after her marriage to a white man, was sexually abused by the 'granthi' who along with his wife adopted her following her mother's death in an accident.

In its judgment Thursday, the provincial British Columbia Supreme Court said Joginder Singh Bains, now 77, began sexually abusing Kaur when she was just eight on their farm at Fraser Valley near Vancouver.

Judge Nancy Morrison said the adopted girl was subjected to oral and anal sex, and also beatings. To prevent pregnancy when she reached puberty, the couple had an IUD inserted in her.

The assaults took place over a period of 10 years and began when Waters was eight years old.

Waters, 50, told the court how she had pleaded for help from her aunt, Darshan, and a grandmother after Bains began sexually assaulting her, but her pleas went unanswered.

Darshan and her grandmother colluded to have a doctor insert an IUD device to prevent pregnancy at the onset of puberty.

Morrison said the inference was that Darshan knew what was happening and wanted to ensure "there would be no pregnancy or discovery of on-going abuse."

"Both defendants played a significant part in her losses. The young plaintiff was present in their home, slept in their bedroom and at times, in their bed with them, when sexual assaults took place," the insertion of the IUD into an unknowing 12- or 13-year-old is, as I have stated before, appalling," said Judge Morrison. "She was denied aid by her aunt, her father's younger sister to whom she turned to for help on two occasions. This child was vulnerable as she had recently lost her mother in a tragic accident," said Morrison in her written reasons.

Waters testified that the sexual assaults - also committed by a second uncle who knew she was being sexually abused - had caused severe psychological problems during her life.

"The plaintiff's inability to control her emotions, her loss of enjoyment of life, the interference in the development of interpersonal and sexual relationships and her ongoing mood swings and depression are amply proven by the evidence," said Morrison.

The judge dismissed the defence's argument that damages totalling $70,000 be assessed as the Bains's had lost face in the community, nor did she accept that they were of modest means.

"There is evidence the defendants have operated a dairy farm for many years. There is property jointly owned that is assessed in excess of $1 million," said Morrison.

Waters' counsel had argued Joginder Bains deserved a substantial penalty since at the time the assaults began he was 35 years old, was married and portrayed himself as an educated man, esteemed by his community and within his religion. He had the status of a "Giani" - a position of privilege within the Sikh faith and had denied the assaults and had shown no remorse.

Morrison agreed and said Bains continued "what can only be regarded as arrogant and callous conduct towards the plaintiff."

Bains, one of seven children, arrived from India in 1961 with a religious degree in the Punjabi language, which earned him the respected East Indian title of giani. He worked two successful dairy farms and bought multiple properties over the years.

Waters said once she launched the public lawsuit her prominent relatives disowned her and made her an outcast. But Morrison praised her courage. "It is clear she not only wants to obtain justice in her own case but also to serve as an example to others who may not be as willing to go through the trauma and uncertainty," Morrison wrote.

"She also seeks an end to the anxiety, shame and humiliation that she has experienced and believes it is important for her own healing to be able to speak freely. It is important for her to speak out for the benefit of others who may be experiencing the same trauma."

Damages were assessed at $325,000 for general and aggravated damages, $80,000 in punitive damages and $10,000 for future care. The years of abuse have left Karamjeet with low self-esteem, depression and nightmares, the judge said. Morrison added: "The plaintiff's problems are many. First and foremost, she has suffered a loss of innocence and the loss of a normal childhood. The insertion of the IUD into an unknowing 12 or 13 year old is appalling."

The judge rejected the Sikh couple's argument for waiving the compensation amount because of their "modest means".

Now a mother of two, Karamjeet left the Bains' dairy farm after finishing her high school.

The disgraced couple are bound to face the wrath of the Indo-Canadian community and become the theme of radio and TV talk shows in the coming days.

Eh nu v padh lo

SOURCE: http://www.punjabonline.com/servlet/community.theme?Action=Category&Param=4 Hello, my name is Jaspreet I am writing about the fellowship of our Sikh Community and its faith. Let.s talk about the Sikh Priests. 1.Sikh priest of Gurudawara Dakota Sahib, Fresno, California was having sex in a car and was caught by police in Uttar Pardesh, India. This news was published by Dainik Jagran, Muradabad Edition on August 06, 2005. The copies of this news were delivered in the Guruawaras of California by Mr. Raj Barar, as self-claimed student of Jamala Jatt, who was himself involved in money collecting for his own benefits from Gurudawaras and known as a Greedy Asss. 2.A Sikh Priest from Modesto molested young girls and died in prison. 3.Two Sikh priests, who were the relatives of the President of Gurudawara Nanak Parkash, (located on 99 and Clovis, Fresno the most beautiful Gurudawara in California) molested two young girls and the mothers of those young girls did beat those priests in the Gurudawara in the presence of all the people (congregation), but no police was called. 4.The priests of Gurudawara Nanak Sar of Fresno, California have some kind of recording of one of their fellow priest, who is having sex with a truck driver.s wife, who comes to the Sikh Temple. This recording is viewed by lot of people. 5.The priests of Gurudawara Nanak Sar claim that they are having constant sex with the wives of truck drivers, who come in the absence of their husbands. 6.The priests of Gurudawara Nanak Sar (Cornelia and Ashlan) practice medicine without having any valid license. The priests of the same faith in India killed a person, and kept his wife hostile in the Gurudawara and had raped for 7 consecutive days, check the newspapers and you will find out all the mess. 7.The prophet (Gaddi-Nashin) of this faith, Gurudawara Nanak Sar (Cornelia and Ashlan) does not raise his hand to bless anyone, until a donation is made and slid under his mattress, while he is not Wahe Guru or almighty or Bhagwan or Rub or God or Lord or Deity or Devata, it seems he is the devta or guru of money sucking. 8.Gurudawara Pinedale in Fresno (on Herndon and Ingram, main cross streets) located at 295 W. Beachwood Avenue, Fresno, California has a different story. The president and a migrated Granthi (priest) are involved in encouraging a minor girl to run-away from her home with an adult. The father of the adult Mr. Sher Singh visits the Gurudawara constantly and also is a relative of the President Mr. Harsha Singh and the Chair Person of Gurudawara Master Laxman Singh. These all the people were (directly or indirectly) were involved in the running plot of that minor girl of a trucker and business person of Fresno. Both the minor girl and the adult man are in federal custody. 9.The Sikh Council of Central California, are acting as the self-claimed judges and police power in this matter and are trying to settle this matter out of court and keeping everyone out of trouble. Is the Sikh Council trying to protect these people, who are running this Gurudawara, while everybody in California knows that the Sikh Council is crook, who are against the Red-Cross Society and eat money from the donations? The leaders of Sikh Council are delivering the hate messages and their citizenship must be revoked by the Home Land Security Department.s United States Citizenship and Immigration Services Department. The Leaders of the Sikh Council were involved in Federal Money Laundering, and were persecuted by the Federal Authorities. 10.One of the Leader.s son of Sikh Council of Central California was involved in a Gun Battle in Fresno, and was arrested by the Fresno Police Department. The name of the arrested persons was Mr. Sangha and Mr. Lakhvinder Singh. Mr. Sangha is the son of the President of Selma Gurudawara and prominent self-claimed leader of Sikh Council of Central California. 11.One of the Sikh Priest in San Joaquin Gurudawara Mr. Pala Singh was arrested in a fight in the Gurudawara, while Pala Singh is also a man of money eating process. He is paid for the services by the Sikh Temple Committee, but he tries to get money from the people, who come to bow their head in the honor of Guru, and even now he started a new business their in the Gurudawara, which is to arrange the meetings of Rishtas (matrimonial meetings), what a beautiful job he is doing. This is a holy work to arrange the meetings of singles and to offer singles to the singles, but when he prays to the lord. 12.How many Gurudawars are in Fresno County, while in fact just few, but registered at home addresses to bring the people from other countries to the United States of America and make money and to sponsor people. 13.How about the new community and cult, they have opened their own Gurudawara on Cherry Avenue known as Guru Ravidaas Temple. Do we not have enough Gurudawaras in Fresno? 14.How many illegal Sikh Priests we have in Gurudawaras of Fresno, California and other states of the United States of America, I think in all the Gurudawaras we have illegal priest, who don.t have any morals, respect for the community and Guru, who just spread hate and speak against other religions, even they don.t know any thing about the constitution of the United States of America and they even don.t know that they can.t do that. 15.How about the leaders of self-claimed Sikh Council of Central California, who also spread the hate. They talk about the Red-Cross Society that the Red Cross Society is a society of Christians, but any one can ask them that this society is world wide based and help the needy including in Muslim Countries. Including doctors (self-claimed leaders of Sikh Council) say that Red Cross has its sign in the form of Cross, which is a sign of Christianity, can any one ask to these doctors, are you fool. It seems that these doctors want to loose their citizenship from the United States and actually their citizenship must be revoked. Hope it is enough today. -- Jaspreet , jaspreetsingh2015@yahoo.com

reply to ksingh...not all gianis are bad

because my father was a Giani and a good Gursikh till the end and even came back in spirit looking like a saint...my sister saw him in spirit. Even know about Gianijis all over the world who are true Gursikhs, living in poverty and hardship but still remain in Guruji's charna. However, no doubt about those who commit crimes and dishonor our Great Gurbani and Guruji...and as you mentioned, their hereafter will surely be more pain than what they have caused to others.

This is a Wake-Up call from Baba Ji to protect his children

Indian teaching is the only teachings in the world which explains the three modes of material nature, which is taught in Sri Guru Grant Sahib Ji. Our Gurus had wives but NONE were in the mode of Passion and Ignorance. In fact they transcended all of these three modes of material nature and were transcendentally situated. (many Sikhs have the wrong idea of Guru Gobind Singh Ji's life and the concept of grehast dharma in Sikhism. All Human beings are controlled by these three modes of material nature 1. Goodness. Sat Guna ( Knowledge of God…Wahaguru Ji) 2. Passion Tamo Guna (Meat eating , alcohol, pornography makes one passionate, it increases lust) 3. Ignorance Rajas Guna (No knowledge of God ...and who are in darkness) Our brother got into Maya because he fell into the mode of Passion and Ignorance, and even if he were put in jail for the rest of his life, it still will not resolve his problem. He must rise to the level of Goodness. (Sat Gun) He has to surrender to Baba Ji fall at his feet and beg for his mercy and protection, so that he can be protected from Maya and not re-incarnate into another temporary material body to suffer in this place of death. Secular education (BS, MS, PHD ) is not the solution to a spiritual problem. But knowledge of Guru Ji coming from Wahaguru Ji. Sex is the highest form of pleasure, but it’s our worst enemy, when our lust is not satisfied we become greedy, and when our greed is not satisfied, we become angry, lust, greed, and anger is the three gates leading to hell. This is all taught in Sri Guru Grant Sahib Ji. But who is truly following Baba Ji’s teachings, our leaders, most are into Maya And some are imposters. This is a wake-up call from Wahagru Ji. Please pray for all fallen souls (Sarbat da Bhalla).

My Sympathy's and Admiration

Dearest sister, For all that has happened to you, for all those that have shunned you and for the years that you have wandered this world alone, you have my deepest sympathy. I hope, but I could not blame you, that you will not think ill of the strength of the Sikhi faith into which you were borne. I am ashamed, as I write this message that you have had such evil acts perpetrated against you by a so called man of the faith. But for all of my sympathy, I admire your courage and fortitude in coming forward and enduring the trial of matters which you have kept so hidden for so long. I can not speak so highly of that courage which for me is akin to the courage of our greatest guru's who fought in battle, for yours has been a battle of epic proportions. The evil of those that shun you now is not yours to bear, but for them to answer to. I am from England, but I hope that others who read this and are from the locality of this lady, will ensure that the sangat embraces her (if she still wishes), that they protect her and that they honour her for her courage in making us all stringer and more humble. I hope that the sangat casts out of its midst those that shun her and commit ninda upon her. In short, I hope that the sangat will hear now what those around her did not hear when she was a child. I hope they hear the little girls cry's for help. If, my brothers and sisters, you do, you will stop these evil acts amongst us. I plead to you, my brothers and sisters, to act and not to turn a blind, wherever you are. Satnam

Pornography, Alcohol, Meat Eating, Lusty Movies is the cause

All Gianis need to eat pure Prashad and sing bani with pure love and devotion for Wahaguru Ji This is the power of the wicked witch call Maya Devi She is waiting at every ones front door. Some human beings are worst than animal, at least animals have a mating season. Animals do not incur Karmas, but the Human beings certainly do. Just How many people have skeletons in their closets? (Only Wahaguru Ji know) We must not critise, but fall at the feet of Baba Ji and beg for his protection. He can save us all.. He knows everything…We cannot fool Him Always remember the truth will come out In the end. If you rape someone in this life, that person will rape you in the next life. This is the law of karma. My prayers are with both…. She is my daughter …He is my big brother who fell into Maya. His punishment awaits him.

Should be sent to prison for life

I can't say that I agree with your title: "Pornography, alcohol, meat eating, lusty movies is the cause," especially not with meat eating-- it has absolutely nothing to do with causing someone to commit sexual abuse. We cannot say that we know what the cause is. It may just be lust, gross insensitivity and apathy, etc that triggered this. In any case, this is a horrendous crime. It is very unfortunate that her life had to cross paths with a family of monsters. He should be put in jail for the rest of his life, as well as those women who essentially helped him abuse this brave woman.

sickening!

The fact that the uncle continues to deny any wrong doing and shows no remorse is just simply sicking! Members of the family knew this was going on and denied her any help .... I can't even consider these individuals to be human, should be locked up for the rest of their lives!!

Extremely disgraceful

that being our Great Guruji's sikh and a degree holding granthi (who knows full well the great words of our Great Gurbani) would ignore what he preaches daily to our sangat and being this poor woman's uncle and her other immediate families would allow such an evil act to occur...very disturbing to especially single parents who rely on relatives to help nurture a child in the absence of the parent. May Vaheguruji/ Guruji help us steer away from evil's path at least for the sake of our innocent children. ps. Dearest sisterji, I have said a prayer for you and would like to make a humble request for you to convey your pain to our Great Guruji in your heart so he will wipe off all the painful memories of the past and discover the greatness of our Guruji and Gurbani...the following link is just one true account of a Gursikh, forsaken by all his relatives after an illness and the demise of his mother but our Great Guruji healed his physical and emotional ailment: http://www.akj.org/skins/one/articles.php?id=56 May Vaheguruji/ Guruji bless and guide you, Chardhi Kala

'bout Time

It is about time that the abuse of women in the community is outed. This heinous crime couldn't have been perpetrated without the support of other elder women. It is recorded that children who are sexually abused, report it and are believed and supported it is a blip on the screen of life. An extremely bad event, for sure, but not psychologically oppresive. For the children who are abused, report it and are shoo-shooed or ignored in their pleas for help they are badly damaged for the rest of life. I thank God and Guru for a wise judge who has heard this woman's pain and taken steps to heal her body, mind and spirit. How can an innocent child find the love of God and Guru when the sadh sangat turns their collective back on them as they plea for help? What dirty little secrets do the people ignoring an innocent child have to hide? Life clean and uplift others. My sister, I am sorry and feel sick on behalf of your past situations. I send you love, prayers and sisterly hope. I am deeply saddened by your troubles. Do Ardas and take a hukam for yourself. When you are ready do the same for them. You will see the difference.

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